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The Perfect Blog

Do you believe the perfect blog exist? Maybe there is a perfect blog, but I have not found it. I do believe that there is no perfect blog, but I got to admit. I have come around some amazing bloggers. These bloggers make blogging look so easy, like they can blog with their eyes closed lol. I actually follow several of them on Instagram and Twitter. These bloggers have been blogging for years and they have come a long way. If you do some research on a successful blogger and find their first post, I guarantee you will see a major difference. You will see how much their blog has improved over time.

Sometimes I find myself following too many successful bloggers. Yes, it is good to follow them, but do not get overwhelmed. I use to overthink blogging. I know that’s silly right? But it does happen and I have a feeling I am not the only one. I use to go blank about what to write about. I would spend hours looking at successful bloggers social media accounts. I was spending too much time looking at their account and less time writing my blog. I literally had to stop doing that, those ideas are not mine.

One thing that I have learned about blogging is that you need to be yourself. Do not try to be like anyone else. Trust me, blogging will seem more difficult if you try to be like other bloggers. You do not want to have over 30 ideas from successful bloggers in your head, it will just confuse you. It is best to write down your own ideas for your blog. Then talk about each idea for each blog post. One thing you do not want to do is confuse your audience. Your message in your blog needs to be clear and direct. Grab your audience’s attention and provide content that makes them want to read your blog. My goal is to just reach one person through my blog. Yes! Just one. If I reach more than one that’s great, but if I do not then it’s alright. No one is perfect, with blogging it takes time. Do not get overwhelmed if you do not get any views on your blog, or any likes on your social media. Your audience will grow over time and you will eventually see the views go up. If you want to be a successful blogger, you can. Believe in yourself, do not give up, and remain focus.

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  1. Brandy Yates says

    at 12:34 am

    I think you wrote this with me in mind…..as a new blogger you got everything I’m dealing with. It becomes overwhelming and I find myself not blogging as much. Well I’m writing and jotting down notes constantly, but I am not fully putting them together. This was perfect for me. Right at the time I needed to read it.

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    • MomLifeandMonique says

      at 4:55 pm

      I am happy to hear that love and thanks so much for stopping by. One thing I have learned about blogging is that it takes time. Just like celebrities we have to work hard for what we want. I believe you can be a successful blogger. Be patient and remain consistent.

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